रविवार, 4 दिसंबर 2016

Short Story: How To Correct Life Mistakes!

[07]"Mistakes are painful😫 but they are very useful ways of learning in life🌻."

You can only learn from a mistake after you admit you’ve made it🐨. As soon as you start blaming🗣 other people you distance yourself from any possible lesson. But if you courageously stand up and honestly say “This is my mistake🙋 and I am responsible” the possibilities for learning will move towards you.

If we avoid certain mistakes, then it will save you a whole load of heartache💓 and misdirection↖↗⬇↘↙↔.

Mistakes which we made due to lack of knowledge🤔 & infrequent self-reflection, can be changed into a life experiences with little solid emotional guidance and support👫, as you grow and enter adulthood. Else wise, these are the mistakes that can stick with you for a lifetime if someone or something doesn’t gently (or often abruptly)🙅 help you self-correct (Hope so after reading this you understand why I always fight with you🙎, it's not fight, though!)
Image source: Selfwork in Indian Forest!

Let me explain it with a short interesting story. A lesson that is taught best in the Disney movie “The Lion King.” There is a point in the movie when the young lion Simba🐅 is feeling sorry for himself for his past mistakes. The wise baboon🐒 Rafiki takes a stick  and hits Simba on the back of the head. Simba🦁 yells, “Geez, what was that for” and Rafiki replies, “It doesn’t matter, it’s in the past.” Simba🐅 says, “Yeah, but it still hurts.” Rafiki then says “Oh yes, the past can hurt. But the way I see it, you can either run🏃 from it, or… learn from it.” Rafiki then swings the stick again to hit Simba on the head and Simba🐯 ducks down in time to avoid the stick. Rafiki says, “You see.”  I love💕 that example! It’s the perfect reminder that this principle should not be a difficult one for us to grasp. Yes, it hurts to mess up, but it’s in the past, so learn from it and move on.

If you live life long enough, you'll make mistakes. But if you learn from them, you'll be a better person🕴. 

What is your experience with these life mistakes❓❔❓ What other life mistakes have you encountered and self-corrected along your own personal journey?

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